I’m no expert on relationships, especially long distance relationships, but I’ve learned a few things in the 2+ months that I’ve been in one.
1. Make Plans
Making plans to see other will give you something to look forward to and also gives the illusion of making time go by faster because you’re not just wondering when the next time you’re going to see each other will be.
2. Find Time for Communication
Be sure that both of you are setting aside a little bit of time at least once a day in which you can talk to each other. However, be sure that you do not get angry or upset if your significant other doesn’t have time to talk every once in a while.
3. Be Spontaneous
When you two are together, be sure your relationship doesn’t get repetitive or boring. The kinds of new and exciting things that you try depends on your relationship. If you are not comfortable with trying new things, start with something as simple as ordering a different meal from your favorite restaurant or even going to a new restaurant all together.
4. Be Emotional
This goes for every relationship, but it is especially important in long distance ones. Express your emotions to your partner. If something upsets you, tell them. Don’t let things stay bottled up inside and turn into a bigger issue than it was to begin with.
5. Enjoy the Little Things
Don’t take the love that your significant other gives you, or the things they do for you, for granted. Remind them that you appreciate them. Thank them for things as small as opening the door or taking time out of their day to talk to you.
6. Do What’s Best for You
At the end of the day, you are going to have to live your own life, even if the relationship doesn’t end up working out in the end. You should take any opportunities that will benefit you in the long run. You have to remember that you are your own person.
Life of Lauren 